Apology Accepted

This blog post is in response to my previous post that talked about, The Drunkies Text Again. I remember a week ago, I was telling a couple of my friends that all I wanted from the drunk text regarding, “eating my ass” was inappropriate and I just wanted an apology and for him to realize

Unconditional Love

I was listening to an audiobook and there was one part that talked about, unconditional love. What the heck is that? Google says, “Unconditional love, simply put, is love without strings attached. It’s love you offer freely. You don’t base it on what someone does for you in return. You simply love them and want nothing

Relationships & Mindsets

I just finished reading a book that I left behind and forgot about called, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D. The book goes into specifics about the two type of mindsets that you and I may possess. I’m going to talk specifically about relationships and I am wondering why I

The Rolodex

I have a feeling I have posted about this before. Do you ever get people you have met/dated in the past and they keep coming back? I mean, you don’t even have to be in touch for years and they will slip into your DM or text from out of no where and it’s some

Attachment Styles

What is the meaning of attachment style? Attachment styles describe how people behave in relationships, from their desires for closeness and intimacy to their sensitivity to potential relationship threats. But unlike say, the five love languages or the Myers-Briggs personality types, attachment styles are rooted in science. I really didn’t know about this until I saw

The Drunkies Text Again

I am looking back at the previous posts where I mentioned drunk texts. Here’s a recap: 3/19/2021 – Drunk Texts/Calls/FaceTime Videos 6/28/2021- Drunk Texting 2/19/2022- More Drunk Texts Here we are in March of 2024 and this continues! I have to admit, I had trouble sleeping last night and today is (3/29/2024) but I will

Nobody Listens

Have I ever complained about this before? I mean, I guess I can take a look at myself and see if I listen to others? Sometimes. Well, I’m going to say that I have this issue where if I am clearly communicating something and the other person I am talking to isn’t listening, it gets

Bored

What is the definition of boredom? Feeling weary because one is unoccupied or lacks interest in one’s current activity. I’m mentioning this topic today because a few days ago, a friend of mine talked about being bored. She feels like she has some space/time to fill over the weekend so she’s, “bored”. I also thought about it a little bit and

Mickey

I recently heard this story from my friend who was at a local bar/restaurant at Fashion Island in Newport Beach. This story made me laugh a little bit so I hope you guys find it entertaining as well. My friend is a female who is 50 and she went to grab a drink with a

The Boys are Coming Back!

Remember I mentioned something about boys keep coming back? I don’t really remember which post and what nickname I assigned him, but this dude is persistent. I was thinking how I wouldn’t want to be ghosted and that closure is better, right? I don’t really care what you think actually. What has really messed me